• You’re supposed to return the engagement ring (now that’s hilarious!!!)

• You have to send back all the gifts with a brief explanation why it was cancelled. (So don’t use anything until you say, "I do".)

• It’s written that if a gift is engraved or personalized, you don’t have to return it.

• Don’t speak poorly of your ex because somewhere down the line you might get back together. (Darsi added this one all by herself.)

• You should inform out-of-town guests first so that they can change or cancel their travel and lodging arrangements.

• If you’re postponing your wedding, of course every guest has to be contacted. Etiquette pros say that you have to send another invitation with the new date.

Cancelling Or Postponing The Wedding